Research/Safety

Romance scam statistics: reports, losses, and limits

Official FTC romance scam statistics for 2023, including reports, total reported losses, median loss, and what the data leaves out.

THE SHORT ANSWER

The FTC received 64,003 romance-scam reports for 2023, with $1.14 billion in reported losses and a $2,000 median reported loss per person.

64,003
2023 reports
$1.14B
reported losses
$2,000
median reported loss per person
SCREENSHOT RECEIPT64,003

2023 reports

Source: Federal Trade Commission
01

Losses are large relative to the number of reports

Romance scams generated fewer reports than business- or government-imposter scams in 2023, but the median reported individual loss was the highest among imposter-scam types in the FTC summary.

The $1.14 billion figure is the sum of losses people reported to the Consumer Sentinel Network. It is not an estimate of every dollar lost nationwide.

02

Reported data usually understates the full problem

Some victims never report, may not recognize the fraud, or may report through channels that do not reach the same database. Conversely, a report is an allegation and not automatically a criminal conviction.

That is why the page says reported losses and report counts every time the number appears.

03

Dating apps are one path, not the only path

FTC guidance says scammers create fake dating profiles, but many reported contacts begin on social media. In the agency’s 2022 analysis, 40% of loss reports with origin information started on social media and 19% on a website or app.

Moving quickly to an encrypted messaging service, refusing to meet, and asking for money or investment help are more useful warning signs than assuming every scam begins inside a dating product.

DATA

Compare the denominators.

FTC romance-scam report and loss measures
MeasureValueReference period
Consumer Sentinel reports64,0032023
Total reported losses$1.14 billion2023
Median reported loss per person$2,0002023
Loss reports that began on social media40%2022 reports with origin information
Loss reports that began on a website or app19%2022 reports with origin information

Reading rule: FTC figures describe reports received and reported losses, not every incident or dollar lost nationwide.

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Open the evidence.

These links go to the publisher—not a secondhand statistic roundup.

  1. 01
    Federal Trade Commission

    Love Stinks — When a Scammer Is Involved

    Official Consumer Sentinel summary of 2023 romance-scam reports, reported losses, and median individual losses.

    Open source ↗
  2. 02
    Federal Trade Commission

    Romance Scammers’ Favorite Lies Exposed

    FTC analysis of how reported romance scams began, common stories, communication channels, and payment methods.

    Open source ↗
How much money is lost to romance scams?

The FTC reported $1.14 billion in romance-scam losses for 2023, based on reports received by the Consumer Sentinel Network.

How many romance scams go unreported?

The FTC data cannot give a complete unreported count. The published total should be described as reports received, not all incidents that occurred.

Do romance scams only happen on dating apps?

No. FTC data and guidance also identify social media and unexpected private messages as common starting points.