Online dating statistics: the numbers worth repeating
Pew found that 30% of U.S. adults had ever used a dating site or app, 9% had used one in the prior year, and 10% of partnered adults said they met their current partner through one.
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Pew found that 30% of U.S. adults had ever used a dating site or app, 9% had used one in the prior year, and 10% of partnered adults said they met their current partner through one.
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Pew found that 30% of U.S. adults had ever used a dating site or app, 9% had used one in the prior year, and 10% of partnered adults said they met their current partner through one.
Online dating experience was most common among adults under 30 and LGB adults in Pew’s 2022 survey, while overall usage was similar across racial and ethnic groups.
Pew’s 2022 survey found ever-use rates of 53% for adults under 30, 37% for ages 30–49, 20% for ages 50–64, and 13% for ages 65 and older.
Pew found that 46% of Americans who had ever used online dating had used Tinder. That equals 14% of all U.S. adults—not 46% of the country.
Ten percent of partnered U.S. adults said they met their current partner through online dating, while 53% of online-dating users rated their overall experience positively.
Pew found that 10% of partnered U.S. adults met their current partner on a dating site or app. Among partnered adults under 30, the share was 20%.
Pew found that 53% of online-dating users called their experience positive and 46% called it negative, with meaningful differences across groups.
Pew found that 35% of Americans who had ever used online dating had paid for a site, app, or extra feature at some point.
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Americans were almost evenly split: 48% said online dating was very or somewhat safe, while 49% said it was not too safe or not at all safe.
Forty-eight percent of online-dating users reported at least one of four unwanted behaviors Pew measured; women under 50 reported the highest combined exposure at 66%.
The FTC received 64,003 romance-scam reports for 2023, with $1.14 billion in reported losses and a $2,000 median reported loss per person.
The clearest warning pattern is a person who builds intimacy remotely, avoids meeting or verification, then asks for money, cryptocurrency, gift cards, fees, or urgent financial help.
Observed household patterns are outcomes, not universal preferences.
More than one-third of opposite-sex couples living together in 2025 had partners within one year of the same age; in 2022 opposite-sex marriages, the average gap was 2.2 years.
More than one-third of opposite-sex couples who lived together in 2025 had partners within one year of the same age.
In about 7% of opposite-sex couples living together in 2025, the male partner was at least ten years older; Census counted 5.1 million such couples versus 1.3 million with a female partner at least ten years older.
In 26% of opposite-sex couples living together in 2025, partners’ annual earnings were within $5,000; in 52%, the male partner earned at least $5,000 more.
The Census Bureau estimated about 1.4 million same-sex couple households in 2024: roughly 836,000 married and 551,000 unmarried couple households.
In 2024, 31.3% of married same-sex couple households were interracial, compared with 19.5% of married opposite-sex couple households.
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Among adults ages 18–44, 59% had ever lived with an unmarried partner in Pew’s NSFG analysis; separately, 7% of all adults were currently cohabiting in the CPS measure.
Seven percent of U.S. adults were living with an unmarried partner in the CPS measure Pew cited, while 11% described themselves as cohabiting in Pew’s broader July 2022 relationship survey.
The CDC provisionally counted 2,041,926 marriages in 2023, a crude rate of 6.1 per 1,000 total population; Census estimated 2025 median first-marriage ages of 30.8 for men and 28.4 for women.
The provisional U.S. marriage rate was 6.1 marriages per 1,000 total population in 2023, based on 2,041,926 marriages.
CDC state marriage rates use provisional marriages per 1,000 state residents, but each marriage is assigned to the state where the ceremony occurred—not necessarily where the couple lives.
Census estimates show median first-marriage age rose from 23.5 to 30.8 for men and from 21.1 to 28.4 for women between 1975 and 2025; the series proves the shift, not one universal cause.
A source can be reputable and still be wrong for a claim. We distinguish adults from users, ever-use from current use, households from people, reported fraud from all fraud, and descriptive differences from causes.
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