Research/Safety

Online dating safety statistics

Verified U.S. survey findings on whether online dating feels safe, unwanted behavior, suspected scammers, and background checks.

THE SHORT ANSWER

Americans were almost evenly split: 48% said online dating was very or somewhat safe, while 49% said it was not too safe or not at all safe.

48%
said online dating was safe
49%
said it was not safe
60%
supported required background checks
SCREENSHOT RECEIPT48%

said online dating was safe

Source: Pew Research Center
01

Perception is divided

Pew’s July 2022 survey found no broad public consensus about safety. The safe share had slipped from 53% in the Center’s 2019 study to 48% in 2022.

People who had used online dating were more likely to call it safe than those who had not, 67% versus 41%.

02

Women expressed more concern

Fifty-seven percent of women said dating sites and apps were not a safe way to meet people. Among users, women were also more likely than men to say the platforms were unsafe, 41% versus 23%.

A perception question does not measure the probability of a specific incident. The report separately asked users about unwanted behaviors and suspected scammers.

03

Background checks had broad—but not universal—support

Six in ten adults said dating companies should require background checks before a person creates a profile. Fifteen percent opposed the idea and 24% were unsure.

Support was lower among people who had actually used online dating, showing why an overall public percentage should not be presented as unanimous user demand.

Open the evidence.

These links go to the publisher—not a secondhand statistic roundup.

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    Pew Research Center

    From Looking for Love to Swiping the Field

    Nationally representative survey of 6,034 U.S. adults, fielded July 5–17, 2022, with definitions and subgroup tables.

    Open source ↗
Are these numbers current dating-app user counts?

No. They are survey estimates from Pew’s July 2022 fieldwork, published in 2023. They measure reported experience among U.S. adults, not live platform accounts or monthly active users.

Do most Americans think dating apps are safe?

No clear majority did. Pew reported 48% saying safe and 49% saying not safe in July 2022.

Do background checks eliminate dating risk?

No. A background check can miss unreported behavior, mistaken identities, and new misconduct. It is one possible safeguard, not a guarantee.