Research/Safety

Dating app harassment statistics

A careful breakdown of unwanted sexual messages, continued contact, offensive names, and threats reported by online daters.

THE SHORT ANSWER

Forty-eight percent of online-dating users reported at least one of four unwanted behaviors Pew measured; women under 50 reported the highest combined exposure at 66%.

48%
experienced at least one measured behavior
38%
received unsolicited sexual content
6%
were threatened with physical harm
SCREENSHOT RECEIPT48%

experienced at least one measured behavior

Source: Pew Research Center
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The combined statistic covers four experiences

Pew asked whether users had received unwanted sexual messages or images, faced continued contact after saying they were not interested, been called an offensive name, or been threatened with physical harm.

Thirty-eight percent reported unwanted sexual content, 30% continued contact, 24% offensive names, and 6% physical threats. A person could report more than one, so the values should not be added.

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Women under 50 reported substantially more exposure

Among women under 50 who had used online dating, 66% reported at least one measured behavior. Fifty-six percent had received unwanted sexual content, 43% continued contact, 37% an offensive name, and 11% a physical threat.

The survey captures whether an event ever occurred, not frequency, severity, platform, or when it happened.

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The result is not a profile-level risk rate

Forty-eight percent of users reporting an experience does not mean 48% of matches or profiles were responsible. One bad actor can contact many people, and one user can have multiple incidents.

For safety decisions, pair population statistics with platform reporting tools, public-location first meetings, and independent identity checks where appropriate.

Open the evidence.

These links go to the publisher—not a secondhand statistic roundup.

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    Pew Research Center

    From Looking for Love to Swiping the Field

    Nationally representative survey of 6,034 U.S. adults, fielded July 5–17, 2022, with definitions and subgroup tables.

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Are these numbers current dating-app user counts?

No. They are survey estimates from Pew’s July 2022 fieldwork, published in 2023. They measure reported experience among U.S. adults, not live platform accounts or monthly active users.

What is the most common unwanted behavior measured?

Receiving an unsolicited sexually explicit message or image was the most common of the four, reported by 38% of users.

Can the four percentages be added together?

No. Users could report more than one behavior, so adding them would double-count people.