U.S. men
Median age at first marriage
The 2024 American Community Survey estimates the median age at first marriage at 30.8 for men and 28.8 for women nationwide. Searchers say “average,” but the Census state ranking tables publish a median, so this page keeps the distinction explicit.
SEE THE EVIDENCE↓American Community Survey one-year estimate. This is a median, despite the common search wording “average age of marriage.”
Median age at first marriage
Median age at first marriage
Lowest state estimate
Highest estimate in table
2024 ACS one-year ranking tables R1204 and R1205. “Average” is the common query; median is the Census Bureau’s actual measure.
| State | Men | Women | Gap |
|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | 29.6 | 27.0 | 2.6 yrs |
| Alaska | 28.3 | 25.5 | 2.8 yrs |
| Arizona | 30.9 | 28.4 | 2.5 yrs |
| Arkansas | 27.2 | 25.8 | 1.4 yrs |
| California | 32.1 | 30.4 | 1.7 yrs |
| Colorado | 30.8 | 28.6 | 2.2 yrs |
| Connecticut | 32.4 | 30.3 | 2.1 yrs |
| Delaware | 31.1 | 29.7 | 1.4 yrs |
| District of Columbia | 32.2 | 32.3 | -0.1 yrs |
| Florida | 31.2 | 29.3 | 1.9 yrs |
| Georgia | 30.8 | 28.8 | 2.0 yrs |
| Hawaii | 30.9 | 29.7 | 1.2 yrs |
| Idaho | 28.2 | 25.4 | 2.8 yrs |
| Illinois | 31.3 | 29.9 | 1.4 yrs |
| Indiana | 29.5 | 27.5 | 2.0 yrs |
| Iowa | 29.4 | 26.9 | 2.5 yrs |
| Kansas | 28.8 | 26.2 | 2.6 yrs |
| Kentucky | 27.8 | 26.5 | 1.3 yrs |
| Louisiana | 30.2 | 27.3 | 2.9 yrs |
| Maine | 30.5 | 28.0 | 2.5 yrs |
| Maryland | 32.2 | 29.6 | 2.6 yrs |
| Massachusetts | 32.4 | 30.9 | 1.5 yrs |
| Michigan | 31.0 | 28.7 | 2.3 yrs |
| Minnesota | 30.6 | 28.6 | 2.0 yrs |
| Mississippi | 27.5 | 26.5 | 1.0 yrs |
| Missouri | 29.2 | 26.8 | 2.4 yrs |
| Montana | 30.5 | 28.0 | 2.5 yrs |
| Nebraska | 29.2 | 26.8 | 2.4 yrs |
| Nevada | 31.7 | 30.0 | 1.7 yrs |
| New Hampshire | 32.4 | 30.0 | 2.4 yrs |
| New Jersey | 31.6 | 29.8 | 1.8 yrs |
| New Mexico | 32.0 | 29.4 | 2.6 yrs |
| New York | 31.9 | 30.4 | 1.5 yrs |
| North Carolina | 29.9 | 27.5 | 2.4 yrs |
| North Dakota | 28.3 | 26.0 | 2.3 yrs |
| Ohio | 30.1 | 27.5 | 2.6 yrs |
| Oklahoma | 28.1 | 26.4 | 1.7 yrs |
| Oregon | 30.3 | 29.2 | 1.1 yrs |
| Pennsylvania | 30.9 | 29.3 | 1.6 yrs |
| Rhode Island | 32.2 | 30.9 | 1.3 yrs |
| South Carolina | 29.5 | 28.0 | 1.5 yrs |
| South Dakota | 27.5 | 26.2 | 1.3 yrs |
| Tennessee | 28.7 | 27.1 | 1.6 yrs |
| Texas | 30.4 | 27.9 | 2.5 yrs |
| Utah | 27.2 | 25.2 | 2.0 yrs |
| Vermont | 30.8 | 29.8 | 1.0 yrs |
| Virginia | 30.8 | 28.7 | 2.1 yrs |
| Washington | 31.0 | 28.8 | 2.2 yrs |
| West Virginia | 27.7 | 26.8 | 0.9 yrs |
| Wisconsin | 30.5 | 28.3 | 2.2 yrs |
| Wyoming | 28.7 | 25.9 | 2.8 yrs |
Values are survey estimates. A one-decimal difference in rank may not be statistically meaningful without comparing margins of error.
A median is the midpoint: half of first marriages occur below that estimated age and half above. A mean adds all ages and divides by the number of people. Census table B12007 and ranking tables R1204–R1205 report medians, not means.
The national and state values on this page all come from the 2024 ACS one-year ranking tables. Census also publishes a historical Current Population Survey series, but its survey design and estimates should not be mixed into an ACS state ranking.
The table shows where first marriages occurred earlier or later in the survey estimate. It does not prove why; education, housing, migration, religion, economics, and population composition may all be associated.
The statistic describes first marriage, not remarriage, engagement, cohabitation, or the age of every married resident. Someone who married years earlier contributes to a different question than someone first marrying now.
The official ranking table contains the 50 states, District of Columbia, Puerto Rico, and the United States. This site shows the 50 states plus D.C. and keeps Puerto Rico outside the calculator’s current geography.
ACS values are survey estimates with margins of error. Small differences between neighboring ranks may not be statistically meaningful, so the table is better for broad comparison than declaring a one-decimal winner.
2024 median age at first marriage for men, United States and states.
2024 median age at first marriage for women, United States and states.
National historical series and Table MS-2 documentation.
The official 2024 ACS state-comparable metric is a median age at first marriage: 30.8 for men and 28.8 for women nationwide. It is often called an average in search queries, but it is not a mathematical mean.
It ranges widely. In the 2024 ACS table, men ranged from 27.2 in Utah and Arkansas to 32.4 in Connecticut, Massachusetts, and New Hampshire. Women ranged from 25.2 in Utah to 32.3 in the District of Columbia.
Utah had the lowest 2024 median age at first marriage for women at 25.2 and tied closely among the lowest for men at 27.2. Rankings are survey estimates and close values may overlap within their margins of error.
Connecticut, Massachusetts, and New Hampshire tied at 32.4 for men. The District of Columbia was highest for women at 32.3; among the 50 states, Massachusetts and Rhode Island were 30.9.
No. It is the estimated median age at first marriage, not the median age of the married population and not the age at remarriage.
Different pages may use different years, surveys, universes, or measures. The ACS supports current state comparisons; the Current Population Survey supports a longer historical national series. They should be labeled rather than treated as interchangeable.
This table cannot answer that causal question. It reports age at first marriage by geography and does not control for the many factors related to relationship outcomes.
The values are transcribed from the U.S. Census Bureau’s 2024 ACS one-year ranking tables R1204 for men and R1205 for women, which are based on table B12007.
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