Is Gen Z dating less?

One 2025 survey found low dating activity among unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35.

31% of surveyed unmarried young adults dated once a month or more (dated monthly+).

2025 National Dating Landscape Survey of 5,275 U.S. adults ages 22–35; this age range spans Gen Z and younger Millennials.

Institute for Family Studies, State of Our Unions 2026

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The survey covered 5,275 people, including older Gen Z adults and younger Millennials. A single survey does not show a decline over time.

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Monthly dating and low activity by sex

Monthly dating and low activity by sex
Survey measureWomenMen
Dated once a month or more26%36%
No dates or only a few in prior year74%64%
Money is a dating barrier46%58%

National Dating Landscape Survey, 2025. Respondents were unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35; these are survey estimates, not official record totals.

Interest in relationships

51% were single and interested in starting a relationship. Only 21% were satisfied with their dating options; 39% were dissatisfied.

Reported barriers

52% said a lack of money made dating difficult. After a bad date or setback, 28% said they stayed positive. 55% said breakups made them more reluctant to date. These answers describe reported barriers, not proven causes.

A separate Gen Z survey

In a 2026 Bank of America and Ipsos survey of 1,133 adults ages 18–29, 45% were single and not actively dating. That survey measured spending and relationship status, not yearly date frequency.

Sources (2)

State of Our Unions 2026

  1. State of Our Unions 2026 ↗

    Institute for Family Studies report based on the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey of 5,275 unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35.

  2. Better Money Habits 2026 Gen Z Report ↗

    Bank of America and Ipsos survey of 1,133 U.S. adults ages 18–29, fielded February 10–28, 2026.

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Common questions

What does “dating recession” mean?

The report uses the term for low dating activity despite interest in relationships.

Does this prove dating apps caused a decline?

No. The surveys do not isolate the effect of dating apps or establish a change over time.

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