dated at least monthly
Unmarried adults ages 22–35
2025 National Dating Landscape Survey of 5,275 U.S. adults ages 22–35; this age range spans Gen Z and younger Millennials.
One 2025 survey found that 31% of unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35 went on dates at least monthly.
What this covers: The survey included 5,275 unmarried adults. It covers older Gen Z and younger Millennials. It does not cover all Gen Z adults.
What this does not show: The survey can describe reported dating activity. It cannot prove why dating activity was low or that one factor caused it.
Where the data comes from: State of Our Unions 2026. Institute for Family Studies report based on the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey of 5,275 unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35.
Unmarried adults ages 22–35
Interested in starting a relationship
58% of men; 46% of women
39% were dissatisfied
| Survey measure | Women | Men |
|---|---|---|
| Dated once a month or more | 26% | 36% |
| No dates or only a few in prior year | 74% | 64% |
| Money is a dating barrier | 46% | 58% |
National Dating Landscape Survey, 2025. Respondents were unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35; these are survey estimates, not official record totals.
The survey asked how often people dated. Thirty-one percent reported dating once a month or more. Most men and women reported no dates or only a few in the prior year. The report uses the term dating recession because activity was low while interest in relationships remained.
The National Dating Landscape Survey covers ages 22–35. It includes older Gen Z and younger Millennials. Bank of America’s separate ages 18–29 survey is fully Gen Z by its definition. It measures relationship status and spending, not annual date frequency.
Fifty-one percent were single but interested in beginning a relationship. This gap between interest and activity is more useful than saying young adults do not want partners.
Fifty-two percent said not having enough money made dating difficult. The gender split was 58% of men and 46% of women. This is a reported obstacle. It does not prove that cost alone caused low dating activity.
Only 28% said they stayed positive after a bad date or relationship setback, and 55% said breakups made them more reluctant. The survey asked people once. It cannot prove that breakups caused lower dating activity.
In Bank of America’s 2026 survey of 1,133 adults ages 18–29, 51% reported $0 in monthly romantic-date spending. Forty-five percent were single but not actively dating. These facts are consistent with lower activity. They should not be merged into one survey group.
Institute for Family Studies report based on the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey of 5,275 unmarried U.S. adults ages 22–35.
Bank of America and Ipsos survey of 1,133 U.S. adults ages 18–29, fielded February 10–28, 2026.
Recent national surveys support a dating slowdown among young adults. In the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey, only 31% of unmarried adults ages 22–35 dated at least monthly. The sample is not only Gen Z. The clearest conclusion is that young-adult dating activity is low.
It is a label for the gap between interest in relationships and actual dating activity. The report found that many young adults wanted relationships while fewer dated regularly.
Bank of America’s 2026 survey found that 56% of its ages 18–29 sample was single. This includes 45% who were single and not actively dating and 11% who were single and actively dating. It is one survey estimate, not an official Census relationship-status measure.
The surveys report several barriers, including money, dissatisfaction with available options, and reluctance after bad experiences. They do not prove one cause or rank every possible explanation.
These results do not show that. App behavior, offline social networks, economics, and personal experiences can overlap. The cited surveys asked people at one point in time, so they cannot separate the effect of dating apps.
Both reports give their samples and methods. The National Dating Landscape Survey covered 5,275 unmarried adults ages 22–35. The Bank of America/Ipsos study covered 1,133 adults ages 18–29 and reported a plus-or-minus 3-point margin. Survey wording and group definitions still matter.
These pages keep active dating, relationship interest, monthly spend, and financial pressure as separate survey measures.