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Same-age couples: what data show

The short answer

Here is what the sources show

For this 2025 Census result, 'same age' means within one year. More than one-third of Census-recorded opposite-sex couples living in the same home fit that definition. This does not include every couple, all relationships, or active daters, and it does not show what people prefer while dating.

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within one year in 2025
51%
of 2022 marriages within two years
46%
within two years in 2000

See U.S. opposite-sex couples who are the same or nearly the same age. The figures use current Census estimates.

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within one year in 2025

U.S. Census Bureau: Characteristics of Opposite-Sex Couples Who Lived Together in 2025
Current Population Survey ASEC estimates covering partners’ age, earnings, education, couple type, and children living in the same home. Read the source
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‘Same age’ needs a threshold

The Census Bureau's 2025 result defines the group as partners within one year of each other. Pew's historical marriage analysis uses two years or less. The measures are not identical.

A page that says 'same age' must state the window. Otherwise, two valid studies can look inconsistent when they use different definitions.

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Close-age marriages increased since 2000

Pew found 51% of opposite-sex marriages were within two years in 2022, up from 46% in 2000. Over the same period, the average spousal age gap edged down from 2.4 to 2.2 years.

The longer historical comparison also shows a large decline from the average gap recorded in 1880, though household structure and social conditions changed substantially over that span.

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Household data leave out couples who live apart

Both sources require partners or spouses to be observed in the same household. Couples living apart are not part of the paired age calculation.

The finding also should not be converted into a preference claim. It describes formed couples, not swipe behavior or the full set of people each partner considered.

Sources we checked

Read the original sources behind these numbers. They show the group, date, and measure used.

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    U.S. Census Bureau

    Characteristics of Opposite-Sex Couples Who Lived Together in 2025

    Current Population Survey ASEC estimates covering partners’ age, earnings, education, couple type, and children living in the same home.

    Check the original source for its publication date.
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    Pew Research Center

    A Growing Share of U.S. Husbands and Wives Are Roughly the Same Age

    Analysis of person-level Census and ACS data for opposite-sex married couples living in the same home, with historical comparisons.

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How common are couples the same age?

More than one-third of opposite-sex couples living together in 2025 were within one year of the same age, according to the Census Bureau.

Are same-age marriages becoming more common?

Using a two-year window, Pew found the share rose from 46% in 2000 to 51% in 2022.

Does same age mean the exact same birth year?

Not in these summaries. Census used within one year; Pew used two years or less for its main same-age marriage comparison.